Strict Parents

STRICT PARENTS Having strict p arents is both a approving and a curse. Of course, I appreciate how they entert necessity something to come ab extinct to me, barely Im already 18 years doddery and I need to live my life before I wo it. I know my parents think what is best for me. They probably indispensability to teach me ab turn up discipline and respect for the elders, but thats not what I indispensableness to hear, so I get frustrated. These are the 3 reason why my parents are so strict. My parents are over hold dearive. It frankly frustrates me when half the clip Im never allowed to go anyplace with my assistants, and go to places without my parents having to be right next to me.I understand they want to protect me because they love me, and I appreciate it, but it gets to the point when some successions its meet ridiculous and over the top. How can I ever whoop it up myself during vacation if Im never allowed out? Last calendar week my friend Kim invited me to go o ut and watch movie at darkness time, I asked my parents if I can go watch the movie with Kim and they just wont permit me go out so I cried that night and just stayed in my room. They wont even let me have a boyfriend because their thinking that Im sacking to get pregnant if I have one. They just dont trust me on having a bf.When get out I ever be free? I know they limited my life a troop (until I went off college). I am their baby at 18 years old, but deep down very sensible and not rebellious. However, to this day I have insecurities because of limitations placed on me. They discipline me by imposing a curfew to help me to become a responsible person, but of course it comes with a punishment. for example, when I go out with my friends, they always identify me that I have to be home by 1000, and I have to obey them and go home on time because when Im not on time there will be a consequence.Last month I went to my best friends natal day party and I was surprised that my parent s allowed me to go out but I have to be home by 1000 pm. I was enjoying my time at the party and I didnt even notice the time and it was 100 am. I looked at my phone my parents have 25 helpless call and I knew that Im in trouble. I was grounded for 2 weeks and my mom confiscated my phone because I didnt answer her phone call. I didnt feel bad because its actually my fault if I was really aware of my time I wouldnt be on that situation and I still love my parents.Most of all, they are strict because of their cultural traditions like when they grew up on their traditional rules and they are kind of doing the alike(p) thing to me. My mom used to tell me in the old years they were more strict than today. Their parents dont let them go out without any companion. They had to do their chores every day before they could go out, and their parents in like manner picked the right guy for them and that is hard because beingness with a guy that they dont love is totally unfair.I cant imagi ne placing myself in that situation but my parents are using that rule to me and its so unfair for my part. For example, there was a time that I had to go to my friends birthday party, and my mom wouldnt let me go out without any companion, so I have to bring my cousin with me to be sure that I went there and didnt go some opposite place. I mean Im old enough to go there alone without any companion with me. I just want to do my own thing and just be me. I want to be independent, and my parents just dont get it.My parents are being strict because they are afraid of losing me. As I am their sole(prenominal) child its their responsibility to protect me. Well, to solve this problem I will probably talk to my parents about them being strict and apologise myself to them how am I feeling about them being strict. I will also prove them that I can be a straightforward daughter, and I will gain their trust so that they wont be as strict as before. I just want to live my life without rules and be a good daughter to them because I love them so much.